How to Win Your Guy Back - A 5 Step Plan to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
If you want to know how to win your guy back then you must learn how to be his friend.
While you do not want to fall into the friend trap, by acting like a good buddy he will begin to feel close to you again and before you know it, the friendship will turn back into a romantic relationship.
Step 1: After the break up occurs, let your guy know that you will always be there for him no matter what happens or has happened.
Since you were the one who stood by him and gave him love and support, once he understands that you are still willing to offer that to him even without the relationship, he will take you up on it when he needs a shoulder to lean on or an ear to vent to.
Step 2: Hang out with him like his other friends would do.
If he asks you if you want to go out and do something, do not suggest dinner or a movie.
Instead, suggest that you watch the game on television, grab a pizza or both.
Suggest whatever you know he does with his other friends so that he will see that you really meant it when you said that a friendship was enough for you.
Step 3: When he starts dating again, do not go crazy.
Instead, support him.
Keep the buddy relationship in mind.
A buddy would want to know who the girl was and want to know things about her so you should too! This will be super hard to do, especially since you are in love with him, but you have to do it.
Getting angry or jealous will destroy the work you have already done.
A friend would not bash the girl or make sarcastic comments about the way she looks, talks, walks, etc.
Make sure you don't do these things! Though it is hard, this is how to win your guy back.
Step 4: When the new girl does not work out (and she will not), do not gloat.
A friend would not behave that way.
Instead, be there for him.
Be supportive and listen to what he has to say about how this breakup has made him feel.
Once you have gotten this far, your chance has arrived.
Now is the time that you should make yourself look like more than a buddy.
He is at a weak moment and should finally be seeing that you are the one who has stood by him even when it was painful for you to do so.
He should be seeing that he has missed having you as his other half and that he needs your love and support in more than just a friendly way.
And he will see these things at this point.
Step 5: Now that he is yours again, do not just fall back into girlfriend mode.
Part of the reason he came back to you is that you were able to play the role of supportive friend when he really needed you to.
Keep this in mind and your relationship will be better than it ever was.
And that is how to win your guy back!
While you do not want to fall into the friend trap, by acting like a good buddy he will begin to feel close to you again and before you know it, the friendship will turn back into a romantic relationship.
Step 1: After the break up occurs, let your guy know that you will always be there for him no matter what happens or has happened.
Since you were the one who stood by him and gave him love and support, once he understands that you are still willing to offer that to him even without the relationship, he will take you up on it when he needs a shoulder to lean on or an ear to vent to.
Step 2: Hang out with him like his other friends would do.
If he asks you if you want to go out and do something, do not suggest dinner or a movie.
Instead, suggest that you watch the game on television, grab a pizza or both.
Suggest whatever you know he does with his other friends so that he will see that you really meant it when you said that a friendship was enough for you.
Step 3: When he starts dating again, do not go crazy.
Instead, support him.
Keep the buddy relationship in mind.
A buddy would want to know who the girl was and want to know things about her so you should too! This will be super hard to do, especially since you are in love with him, but you have to do it.
Getting angry or jealous will destroy the work you have already done.
A friend would not bash the girl or make sarcastic comments about the way she looks, talks, walks, etc.
Make sure you don't do these things! Though it is hard, this is how to win your guy back.
Step 4: When the new girl does not work out (and she will not), do not gloat.
A friend would not behave that way.
Instead, be there for him.
Be supportive and listen to what he has to say about how this breakup has made him feel.
Once you have gotten this far, your chance has arrived.
Now is the time that you should make yourself look like more than a buddy.
He is at a weak moment and should finally be seeing that you are the one who has stood by him even when it was painful for you to do so.
He should be seeing that he has missed having you as his other half and that he needs your love and support in more than just a friendly way.
And he will see these things at this point.
Step 5: Now that he is yours again, do not just fall back into girlfriend mode.
Part of the reason he came back to you is that you were able to play the role of supportive friend when he really needed you to.
Keep this in mind and your relationship will be better than it ever was.
And that is how to win your guy back!