In your quest to get an ex of yours back, you've probably read about what you should do in order to get your ex back.
You may have read tips from other people, and how others have won their exes back.
But have you considered reading about what you should not do if you want to get back together with your ex? Below are the 4 most deadly mistakes you must avoid if you really want your ex back.
1.
    If you really want your ex back, you should not cry or beg your ex to come back to you.
This leaves you with absolutely no self esteem and leaves you looking like a pathetic loser.
Crying, begging, or pleading your ex to come back to you is a sure fire way to get your ex to do the exact opposite of what you're begging him or her to do.
2.
    Do not bombard your ex with voicemails, SMS, emails, and instant messages.
Your ex needs time to think things over on whether or not they would like to give the relationship another shot.
You bombarding him or her with frequent messages will only make your ex annoyed and all chances of reconciliation will go down the drain.
3.
    Do not threaten your ex by using deadlines, especially if he or she is not returning your phone calls or messages.
For example, don't leave your ex a message stating that if he or she does not return your call by noon tomorrow, you'll destroy his/her CD collection they left at your house.
Threatening your ex with deadlines will only make you look foolish.
4.
    Don't stalk your ex around.
Pretending to be at the same place at the same time is not really a nice way to go.
Give your ex room to breathe and don't follow him/her around like a lost puppy.