What is the secret to playing hard to get? How can a woman learn how to do this effectively? Why does this technique work so well on getting a man's attention? There are a few rules to follow when playing hard to get; here they are.
Timing and intensity are two crucial elements of playing hard to get.
Your success depends on knowing when to give and when to take in the relationship, and it also depends on knowing how strong your actions should be.
When you play hard to get, the idea is to show just enough interest in him to get him interested in you.
Once you get his attention, tease and play with him a little by being coy and slightly mysterious.
The more elusive you are, the more his curiosity builds and the more intrigued he becomes.
Once you exchange digits, you must be patient and allow him to make the initial phone call.
It must be his move on deciding when to make contact and try to set up that first date.
No matter how long it takes, do not cave and call him; your entire hard-to-get plan will crash if you do.
He'll be happy to hear that you want to see him again, but don't rearrange any plans you might have if you have a conflict with the day and time he suggests.
The give and take is that you let him know you're pleased that he called, but you also already have a full life.
Don't push it too far because he might feel that the battle isn't worth fighting if you are too busy, so offer up an alternative time for the date.
Once you get together, be yourself.
Don't hide your personality or intelligence; let him see who you really are.
That is what holds his interest and will have him planning that second date.
Reveal things about yourself just a little at a time so that you enhance that mystery.
Playing hard to get grabs his attention, increases your attraction, and builds your allure.
It is a no fail way to keep a guy interested.