If you want to get your ex back, this is the number one principle you must know.
The fact is, people want what they cannot have.
But when they have too much of it, they will start taking it for granted.
Let's take an example.
Peter and Jane have broken up.
Peter wants to get Jane back.
So, he starts calling her over and over again and even began to stalk her.
This is a form of desperation.
It is almost certain that Peter will never be able to get Jane back if he continues doing the same thing.
Why? That's because Peter has violated the number one principle.
To Jane, Peter is someone she can easily get.
She knows she can get Peter back anytime.
Therefore, she will just take Peter for granted.
What Peter should do instead is to begin respecting himself.
Instead of stalking Jane or calling her over and over again, he will get better result if he starts doing things differently.
So, here is what Peter can say to Jane.
"Jane, I think you are right.
Perhaps we should really break up.
I respect your decision.
I hope you will find a better relationship in the future.
Even though we have broken up, I still regard you as a friend.
" Basically, what Peter should portray to Jane is that although he still loves her, he doesn't need her.
Jane will start to realize that Peter is going away.
Peter is no longer someone she can easily get.
This will turn the tables around.
Jane will start chasing Peter instead if she still has feelings for him.
This might sound like a game to you.
However, this is just how things work in a relationship.
People want what they do not have.
If you want to get your ex back, it is really important for you to understand this principle.