Sometimes you get the feeling that all your ex is interested in is sex! This can be very demeaning and make you feel like you are nothing but a toy or sexy object to him.
No one can blame you if you tell him to get lost and refuse to get back with him.
However before you do this, make sure that he is indeed interested only in sex.
Here is how you can tell for sure.
Think back and see if he was obsessed with sex What was it like in the past? When you were with him, was he obsessed with sex/ Did he only bother with you when he wanted to be sexually satisfied? Think back and see if the only times he was good and caring towards you was when he wanted to lure you to bed.
If this is true then he could be just interested in your body and nothing else.
Does he always talk about sex When you are together does he talk about other things - the future, having children and making a home and life together or does he only make snide remarks and references to the passionate sex that he misses so much! If all he seems to have on his mind is sex then you are in trouble! Do you find him staring at your body When you are in his company, does he look at your face or does he ogle your body? Is he only interested in what you are wearing and thrilled with the glimpse of your cleavage or sexy legs? These are important aspects to consider before going back to him.
If he does not bother about anything else that concerns you - he is just there for the sex.
Has he given you a reason for wanting to come back? What does he say when he tries to convince you to patch things up and get back with him.
His reasons for wanting you to come back to him should be such that will put you at ease about the relationship.
If you find that he is making stupid excuses and finding silly reasons to reconcile with you - don't kid yourself that he loves you.
How concerned is he about you If he truly loves you and cares for you and above all - is genuinely trying to make up for the past, he will go all out to prove this love to you.
He will be very concerned about your well being and want to be there for you in every way.
If he does not bother and does not look like he is even bothered about your welfare - he is just interested in the sex.
Does he seem distracted around you One way to know if he is just interested in the sex and nothing else is to check and see if he gives you his whole hearted attention when he is with you.
Does he keep receiving his phone calls, look around distracted, seem like his mind is elsewhere till you start giving him a sexy look that says "come on", it proves that he has just sex on him mind.
Refuse to get physical and watch his reaction Don't let him come near you and get physical with you and behave like the proverbial ice maiden and see if he is as interested in getting back or not.
Chances are that he will lose interest completely if all he is interested in is sex!