Avoidance may mean that a person would want to distance himself so as not to cause further emotional damage.
This is also true in fresh break-ups.
When your ex is trying to avoid you, don't worry too much that they might not talk to you ever again.
Just let time take its course.
Here are ways to get your ex back when they are trying to avoid you: Leave them be-time alone is what they need.
A common mistake of most people is trying so hard to fix things in a fast pace.
They are avoiding you for a reason, and that reason may not be as cruel as you think.
Remember that heart aches take time to mend, so give it time before you try and approach the person about your break-up.
Make someone talk to them-your ex might still be insecure around you that's why they are avoiding you.
So instead of you, directly approaching him, try making someone else do so.
Sometimes, it's good to have a mediator between two parties that have conflict.
It allows a fresh insight and a new light to shed into the scene.
Apologize-if you find out from your mediator that it is you who is at fault, and it is just now that you realize it, then go apologize.
If you can't do it personally, try channelling it into writing or leave behind a message or do it in whatever way that would make you comfortable.
Ensure them of your love-after apologizing for your mistakes, make sure that you let them know that you love them and are willing to change your foul ways before.
This would be your stepping plate in getting back on your relationship.
Be irresistible-amuse your ex every step of the way, not only with your physical appearance but with the change that you have worked on in your attitude.
Be a better person to them and maintain being one all the way.