If you are convinced in your heart and spirit that you made a mistake with your ex and you want him back in your life, then there are a few tactics that you can adopt to make him realize that the breakup was a mistake.
These tips will help you to keep the doors of communication open and get your ex to contact you.
Look your best and whet his curiosity One way of making your ex really curious about you is to look so gorgeous and sexy that he begins to regret the fact that you don't belong to him anymore! Look like the woman of your dreams and make sure that you flaunt your new found confidence and sexuality so that he finds himself missing you and wanting to talk to you.
Drop out of the scene completely If you were always in his line of vision and he saw you very often, he could just get used to the idea that you will always be around.
This is the reason why you should drop out of the scene completely and make sure he does not see or hear from you for some time.
He will wonder where you are and will try to desperately find out details about you or call you.
Ignore your ex while letting him see you with new friends Another sure way of getting your ex to call you is to make him see you having a wonderful time with new friends.
The fact that you have gone on with your life will make him a little jealous and he might find himself resenting the thought.
This might goad him to call you.
Be non-committal and matter of fact when you do meet him Check back and see if you sounded like you were dying to meet him and get back with him when ever you talked to him since the breakup.
Change your attitude and make sure that you sound matter of fact and non-committal when you happen to see or talk to him.
This will surprise him and he will wonder if his magic has begun to fade.
When he can stand it no longer - he will call.
Be full of surprises Many men have a "dog in the manger" attitude and your ex could be no different! If you surprise him by being involved in plenty of exciting activities and be seen in the company of attractive guys, he is bound to be very surprised and want to know more! Do all the things he used to want you to do before, but you did not have the courage at that time to do them! Make your ex wonder about your love life If you get the message across that you are no longer pining for your ex, he is obviously going to wonder if you have found somebody new! The fact that you don't message or talk to him any more will make him almost sure that you are involved in a new relationship and this will make him try to get in touch with you to make sure! Look happy and free Since actions speak louder than words, you will not have to say much - all you have to do is look deliriously happy and thrilled to be single, eligible and free to date again.
Make sure you look extremely attractive and sexy so that he begins to really fear that you will be snatched up by someone new.
He is bound to call you sooner or later!