Are you looking for a way to make him love you? Have you watched too many good men leave and you want to know what you can do to make them stay? Would you like to find a way to make him commit to a true, loving relationship? Like any emotion, love is not something you can just order or demand.
You want to entice it, draw it and make it real.
You'll have to start by looking at yourself.
A change in perception and the way you look at men can help you find success in relationships.
Are you clingy or needy? Are you pushing and shoving him down that commitment path? If you're in such a rush to be in a solid and loving relationship, you may be transmitting that urgent need of yours to him and he in turn may react by turning away.
Let him have a bit of breathing space and understand that he's not necessarily feeling that same sense of urgency as you are.
That's not to say he doesn't want a loving relationship with you, he's just not as rushed.
Above all, a guy is looking to have a good time, so if he feels tense every time he sees you because he sees your desperation, he'll go and look for a good time elsewhere.
Relax and enjoy the relationship as it is.
Have fun and show him how great it is being with you.
This can be such a thrilling time of does he, doesn't he and though that nervous tension can be irritating at times, it can also be exciting.
If you leave him enough breathing space and you take care of your own life while taking time apart from him, he'll be more eager to see you when you do find time for him.
He'll appreciate that you have your own life and will feel less threatened by you need to tie him down.