So, you and the man that you desperately want to be with have split up for one reason or another? The great news is that the following 3 steps to get your ex boyfriend back are guaranteed to work in your favor and will make him yours once more.
The Reason Why You Broke Up The first step in getting him back is realizing why you broke up and figuring out how to right that wrong.
Maybe the two of you just drifted apart, maybe it was due to a difference of opinion which lead to a major argument.
If your relationship broke up due to either you or him being unfaithful, then you really need to think about whether getting back together is such a good idea.
Different techniques will work on different men but these steps should work on your ex-boyfriend.
If he is oblivious to all three, then the truth is that he really isn't worth your time.
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Make Him See What He Is Missing Out On Go to a place where you know he will be, but make sure you are with somebody and it does not look like you are looking for him.
For example, visit a bar that he frequents with some of your friends.
Make sure that you are dressed up to the nines and looking hotter than you have ever looked before.
If you let yourself go slightly in the relationship, then now is the time to show him just how stunning you are.
A cute little outfit and having your hair and makeup done can work wonders - men are very visual creatures.
Give him a little smile and a nod of acknowledgement but apart from that keep your distance and make sure he sees what a good time you are having.
It's best not to come with another man as things could go in the apposite direction for you.
However, if a man does approach you then a little flirt will do no harm, and might stir up a shot of healthy jealousy with your ex boyfriend.
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Give Him Some Breathing Space, Before You Pounce Some time alone might be all he needs to gather his thoughts and realize that he wants to work on what the two of you had.
So ignore him completely, don't text him and definitely don't arrange to meet him.
This is especially important if you have only broken up recently.
The rules alter slightly after a longer period of time.
After a week or so send him a nonchalant text, saying something along the lines of "Hey, how are you? Is it OK if i drop by to collect my -insert unimportant item here- x.
When you go over to his place make sure you look fantastic.
Drop in a touch of gentle flirtation if he seems like he is up for it, and bring up something from your past in a lighthearted way.
Subtly reminding him of all the fun and good times you shared together, will remind him of the person that he fell for initially.
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Hang Out As Friends And Don't Get Too Emotional After a few weeks have gone by, drop him a message asking him if he wants to go see that movie he had been talking about for the last three months.
If it goes to plan and he says yes, keep your flirting to a minimum and just have a fun time with him, like it used to be in the beginning.
He needs to see that you are the one that he wants to be with and sometimes to go forward - we must first go backwards.
Don't get emotional or deep on any level, and definitely don't beg him to come back to you; this will send him running for the hills.
If the 3 steps above to get your ex boyfriend back are followed well, then you should hopefully achieve what you set out to.
If he still doesn't seem keen then take a step back, maybe the two of you don't belong together after all.
If he doesn't want to know, then in the long run no amount of strategies will work.
If you are soul mates then destiny will find a way to bring you back together.