If you are trying to get back together with your ex wife, you need to remember one thing: respect yourself.
If you can remember that one rule, you and your wife will have a chance of getting back together.
However, if you violate that rule, you'll have to work twice as hard to restore your relationship.
Most people go about getting back together the wrong way.
They think that if they beg and plead enough, their wives will take them back.
However, nothing can be further from the truth.
While some people get off on seeing others grovel before them, they usually don't love or respect the person doing the groveling.
In fact, they may be filled with disgust or even loathing towards that person.
Instead, you need to show your wife that you are worthy of respect.
Mutual respect is one of the cornerstones to any relationship.
You need to respect your wife, and your wife needs to respect you.
Without that, you cannot be equal partners to face the world together.
If you grovel for your wife to come back, you debase yourself, both in your own eyes and in the eyes of your ex.
This makes it harder for her to see you as someone worth being in a relationship with.
Instead, work on yourself first.
Hit the gym.
See a counselor, if necessary.
Hang out with friends and find things that you enjoy doing.
All of these will make you more interesting to your wife.
And when you are ready, you will see her again.
You'll be able to talk to her as equals, and she'll respond, much like when you first started dating.
Then you can begin the process of reconciliation.