How to Get Lucky in Love
Do you want to know how to get lucky in love? That phrase is a funny one to use when it comes to relationships.
You see when I was growing up the term "getting lucky" had a whole different meaning.
It meant you took it all the way with a girl.
What I have found though as I have grown older and wiser is that truly getting lucky has very little to do with sex and everything to do with the connection between the two people.
Now I am not proposing a law against sex, on the contrary I am all for sex.
It is a wonderful thing that God made for us, but it is not a leading indicator of knowing if you have had luck with women.
Getting lucky in love has other indications.
They are things that most people do not see in their relationships so if they happen in yours they should be easy to spot.
Here are some of them: You know you have had luck in a relationship when you go to text her and simultaneously receive a message from her.
This is especially a good sign if it happens a lot.
You know you have found favor in love when you think long and hard about the fact that the two of you agree on almost everything and never have fights.
You know you have won the love lottery when you find yourself going out of your way to be good to her.
So how do you get lucky in love? Step one: you put principles over looks.
Step two: you love them for the good in them, and the bad in them without judgment.
Step three: you stand up for them despite the greatest odds.
If you follow these steps you will see them reciprocated by your partner and the happiness will begin to grow exponentially.
When you meet a person that you can do those things for you will find out very soon that you have gotten lucky in love.
When this happens you will be unlike almost every person around you.
Most people settle for far less than the best that is intended for them.
The settle for a person who is not a good match for them and doing the steps above would just be a burden.
They never see why those of us who are lucky in love can live so happily.
Prepare for some backlash from your friends if you find yourself lucky in love.
You see when I was growing up the term "getting lucky" had a whole different meaning.
It meant you took it all the way with a girl.
What I have found though as I have grown older and wiser is that truly getting lucky has very little to do with sex and everything to do with the connection between the two people.
Now I am not proposing a law against sex, on the contrary I am all for sex.
It is a wonderful thing that God made for us, but it is not a leading indicator of knowing if you have had luck with women.
Getting lucky in love has other indications.
They are things that most people do not see in their relationships so if they happen in yours they should be easy to spot.
Here are some of them: You know you have had luck in a relationship when you go to text her and simultaneously receive a message from her.
This is especially a good sign if it happens a lot.
You know you have found favor in love when you think long and hard about the fact that the two of you agree on almost everything and never have fights.
You know you have won the love lottery when you find yourself going out of your way to be good to her.
So how do you get lucky in love? Step one: you put principles over looks.
Step two: you love them for the good in them, and the bad in them without judgment.
Step three: you stand up for them despite the greatest odds.
If you follow these steps you will see them reciprocated by your partner and the happiness will begin to grow exponentially.
When you meet a person that you can do those things for you will find out very soon that you have gotten lucky in love.
When this happens you will be unlike almost every person around you.
Most people settle for far less than the best that is intended for them.
The settle for a person who is not a good match for them and doing the steps above would just be a burden.
They never see why those of us who are lucky in love can live so happily.
Prepare for some backlash from your friends if you find yourself lucky in love.