How do you know if your girlfriend is chatting to or texting another guy on their cell phone? Well, the obvious way is to catch them in the act simply by listening sneakly nearby. But, of course, if they're taking steps to cover their secret, they're not going to be doing that anywhere near you when you're around. It's only something they're going to do when your not with them. Maybe late at night or when they think they're alone.

It might be that the texting or whatever is going on is just some stupid crush that doesn't mean a lot - just like a game that excites them a little. After all, why would they still be with you? Why not simply break up with you to be with whoever it is at the end of that phone? Well, seeing into the minds of women is tricky. If you suspect that she's chatting with other guys it might just be innocent - a friendship..or it could be something more..or something waiting to develop.

If you need to find out for sure who she's talking to on her mobile phone, and you can't find out by conventional means - then there is an option you could take. You could try one of the many spyware programs on the market. Of course, you'll have to pay for it and get it installed on her phone sometimes. (And you need to check the legality of doing that in your area!). The spyware itself is legal to buy, but it's use is where you need to be careful.

What this software does is allows you to spy on all the phone's data such as sms, texts, emails and all phone call data such as time duration and number called. It works both ways, so you also see all incoming data of this nature that comes in to the phone. In this way you could quite easily see who she's texting and what she's saying as well as all the texts coming in to her phone from outside sources. There is another function that some users find useful and that is the gps locater that will show you where she is whenever her phone is switched on. This is especially useful if you think she's going someplace that she shouldn't be under the guise of saying she's out elsewhere.

As I said you would need to get this app installed on her phone by downloading it using the phone's web browser. Once you have paid for it (around $50 for the one I'd recommend) and installed it, then it is a simple matter of logging into an online account that you are provided with to spy on all of the phone's data - even those text messages that she is instantly deleting after reading or sending.

It's quite a simple system and compatible with most modern smart phones. All of the products out there charge a fair amount for this app - understandably, it's powerful and very much in demand for the kind of reasons that I've talked about here. The one I recommend is probably the most trusted brand online and comes at an affordable price - it's actually the best value for money for a spyware app that actually works. Beware all the scams out there - you won't get a refund once you've downloaded their costly junk to a phone and it doesn't work. At least, if you go with my recommendation you have the option of a full refund - and they'll honor this, no questions asked. They know their cell phone spying program works and so they can offer this guarantee because they process so few refunds and have customers that actually thank them for helping them to find out the truth about what their loved ones are getting up to.

So - if you want to find out if your girlfriend is talking to another guy using her cell phone, this is the most surefire way of doing so - find out the truth today!!