My Husband Doesn"t Love Me Anymore - What Can I Do? Incredibly Crucial Advice For Wives - Read This
When you think, "my husband doesn't love me anymore", I feel what you are going through.
I had the same thing happen to me some time ago, and the pain never left...
until I succeeded in making him love me again and saving our marriage.
I experienced all emotions you must be going through now, so please bear with me as I explain what was it that saved my marriage.
Being full with the thoughts of "my husband doesn't love anymore", "my marriage is collapsing", "what will happen to the kids?", etc.
rains down desperation on all of you - you get soaked in it.
When you are desperate, you can't think very clearly.
Yes, you want to save your marriage more than everything, and you would do everything to do this, but what? How? Saving your marriage from divorce requires careful thinking and planning.
What was the fundamental issue that caused all of this? This whole thing might have sparked from a small and trivial matter quickly leading into a fight; but even in that case it's not the trivial thing that is ending your marriage - it's some much bigger, much deeper, more fundamental problem just being triggered by a small spark.
Finding the roots of the problem, looking at it, examining it requires concentration and rational thinking.
Figuring out what to do requires even more careful thinking as everything you do might end up making your husband fall even further out of love with you and bring you closer to divorce.
The Woman Who Saved My Marriage Said...
"Usually, the quarrels or fights - they are not what ends a marriage.
What ends a marriage is the desperate attempts of a spouse to save the marriage; which ends up frustrating the other side even more, making them even more fed up, eventually leaving them no option but to break up.
" Now...
how does the "desperation" and what I just said/quoted come together? Like this: You need to think clearly.
If you act upon your thoughts right now...
in your desperate state of mind...
you will surely do one of those things that is quoted above - things that will make your spouse even more fed up; things only a desperate mind could come up with to "save" the marriage.
What you need to do is to not go with the flow right now.
Believe me - this is the best piece of advice you will ever receive, as a starting advice on what to do when you say "my husband doesn't love me anymore".
First calm down your emotions, then act...
I had the same thing happen to me some time ago, and the pain never left...
until I succeeded in making him love me again and saving our marriage.
I experienced all emotions you must be going through now, so please bear with me as I explain what was it that saved my marriage.
Being full with the thoughts of "my husband doesn't love anymore", "my marriage is collapsing", "what will happen to the kids?", etc.
rains down desperation on all of you - you get soaked in it.
When you are desperate, you can't think very clearly.
Yes, you want to save your marriage more than everything, and you would do everything to do this, but what? How? Saving your marriage from divorce requires careful thinking and planning.
What was the fundamental issue that caused all of this? This whole thing might have sparked from a small and trivial matter quickly leading into a fight; but even in that case it's not the trivial thing that is ending your marriage - it's some much bigger, much deeper, more fundamental problem just being triggered by a small spark.
Finding the roots of the problem, looking at it, examining it requires concentration and rational thinking.
Figuring out what to do requires even more careful thinking as everything you do might end up making your husband fall even further out of love with you and bring you closer to divorce.
The Woman Who Saved My Marriage Said...
"Usually, the quarrels or fights - they are not what ends a marriage.
What ends a marriage is the desperate attempts of a spouse to save the marriage; which ends up frustrating the other side even more, making them even more fed up, eventually leaving them no option but to break up.
" Now...
how does the "desperation" and what I just said/quoted come together? Like this: You need to think clearly.
If you act upon your thoughts right now...
in your desperate state of mind...
you will surely do one of those things that is quoted above - things that will make your spouse even more fed up; things only a desperate mind could come up with to "save" the marriage.
What you need to do is to not go with the flow right now.
Believe me - this is the best piece of advice you will ever receive, as a starting advice on what to do when you say "my husband doesn't love me anymore".
First calm down your emotions, then act...