Being in the terrible situation where you often hear yourself begging "Don't Let It End, Stop My Divorce" you could well be thinking that you are all alone in feeling this way.
Well, you aren't! Many people go through this and feel exactly as you do at this moment.
Some manage to save their marriage and, of course, some don't! But even these people often find happiness again.
There are certain actions you can take to resolve marital problems and even stop a divorce from going any further.
You must first realize, though, that regardless of how determined you may be, saving your marriage or relationship might not be possible.
Be prepared, mentally, for whichever way things pan out.
Friends and family can be turned to for help, particularly if they have been in a similar situation.
Professional marriage guidance counselors are also another wonderful source of help and advice.
Because of their training and experience they are able to offer some of the the best advice and guidance available.
They can be especially knowledgeable and helpful if adultery is the cause of the problem, something friends may not want to talk about! They have been instrumental is pulling many marriages and relationships back from the brink of divorce and separation many, many times.
These people are professionals in their field and are expert at dealing with many relationship issues including infidelity, depression and anxiety and all the other things which can tear a marriage apart.
Marriage guidance may seem like an expensive option but in reality it can be a lot cheaper than that often final step of consulting a divorce lawyer.
Learning not to argue is very important in your efforts to stop your divorce and to avoid having to get an attorney involved.
Arguing can easily exacerbate what is already a difficult situation.
It may seem that you are only trying to reason with your loved one but it could easily be felt, by them, that you are trying to bully them into your way of thinking.
If you are determined in your goal to "Stop My Divorce" then you should not be arguing with your spouse but fixing the causes of the separation itself.
Arguing with them will only make both sides more entrenched in their points of view and even more convinced that they are right and the other is wrong! Even if you are certain you are right and they are wrong defending yourself will not help convince them of this.
Listen to their side of things.
You may well find they do have a point.
This will give a starting point on which you can both agree.
It may only be a minor point but at least it is a positive one.
Finding more common ground on which you can both agree will show that you are willing to listen to each others point of view.
Being open and honest with one another at this stage is vital.
Very often being in the presence of a marriage guidance professional can keep things under control and aid communication which is, obviously, so important in your quest to "stop my divorce".
They say 'Actions speak louder than words' and that is certainly true in this situation.
If you are still thinking how you can "Stop My Divorce" the next step is to stop just talking about it and take action.
Talking about doing something will get you nowhere but taking action now could make the difference between failure and success.