Trying to get your woman back after she broke up with you but just do not have a clue what went wrong? Many men find themselves in the same boat, travelling along in blissful ignorance until one day their woman calls things off! Here's some clues about your situation to put you on the right track.
Now you really have to understand that women absolutely hate to feel neglected.
This means that they need to be recognised for who they are and what they do for you.
This is perhaps the most important part of learning how to get your woman back.
Many men don't realise that this is an ongoing part of their relationship.
Don't just expect your woman to "know" how you feel about her.
If she's the love of your life, openly let her know.
Shower her with lots of kind gestures and loving words.
Believe it or not, its not usually a man's bad habits or even his drinking or mates that send her away.
Again, the main cause of a woman leaving a relationship is that she feels neglected by the man she loves.
So what are you going to do about it now that your woman has left her relationship with you? How are you going to get your woman back? You need a plan my man, you need a plan! Here's a few clues: 1.
If you have been acting "needy" after your break up, for instance always calling her or messaging her trying to ask for a second chance and to be forgiven, stop right now! Now is not the time to be acting weak around her.
In fact women hate weak men! You will completely ruin any chance you had to get your woman back if you keep acting needy.
Instead completely stop contacting her and make a space between the two of you.
Give her chance to think about things and give your head chance to clear.
2.
Give some careful thought to what you may now see as the cause of the breakdown of your relationship.
How were her needs not met? Where did the neglect arise? Is there something you would do differently if you had the chance to do it all again? 3.
Stop apportioning blame.
Neither blame your woman nor blame yourself for the situation you are in.
Instead understand that both of you have some part to play in this break up otherwise, it quite simply would not have happened.
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Make a plan in your head about your first meeting with her after you have spent a few weeks apart.
What will you say? Where will you go and what will you talk about when you try to get your woman back? Sound difficult? Perhaps in the beginning this will seem too hard, but believe me if you really want to get your woman back you are going to need a very firm plan.
Relationships are never smooth and making up after a break up can be difficult at best.
However, making up in difficult circumstances can be, and has been, done successfully by many people.