A lot of thought goes into what most women will wear on their honeymoon night and if you've ever gone to one of your girlfriends bridal showers or bridal lingerie party, then you'd know exactly what I'm talking about. We giggle, we grin, we whisper lots of naughty things. It's an opportunity for even the shyest of girls to come out and show her risky side that she spends so much time hiding. Ultimately, despite how amazing the bride looks on that night…it doesn't all come together on a whim..there's usually lots of thought and detail put into this special evening.

A girlfriend and I were chatting once about the details that went into preparing for this…and what she even wanted her guy to wear………errrr….whaaaaaaaaaaat?? Wait. Her guy was supposed to be prepared as well? Now that's a twist you don't hear of every day. I mean really can you hear guys sitting around at the bachelor party saying… "So bro, you know, what are you going to wear, cause I think you should totally go with the leopard number!"

Lol! No it's not something that I would suspect guys sit around and chat about, however, it did make me think….hmmm… what would I want my guy to wear on that night?? What would be the epitome of sexiness? My thoughts went rampant.

So what is it that I would see as sexy and appealing…well it goes a little bit beyond what you may be thinking..and yes…I will most definitely pass on the leopard thong…my stomach doesn't deserve the torture it would incur as a result of what that piece of fabric would do to me. Barf!

I can't stress enough how attractive it is to see a man walk, talk and stand tall in his confidence. And not the kind that has to be continuously talked about, but the kind that he possesses in his strength that doesn't have to be mentioned, but just being in his presence resounds strength, determination and ambition. He knows himself, he knows what he wants and he's determined that he will get there.

Shallow games and small talk aren't even something that he wastefully spends his time on, because he's got bigger fish to catch! In knowing what he wants, he's realized what he has, that the woman who stands before him is his greatest prize and most significant achievement. He stands in his confidence silently…allowing the room, the world and the woman standing before him, to celebrate him and his life that is worthy of the utmost respect. Yes that is sexy.

So on that special night…this is what I'd most like to see… my man, probably in his suit or perhaps that tuxedo… sitting in a chair, cool, relaxed and calm. Waiting…not anxious, but with a silent anticipation, that he is ready to embrace the best thing that's ever happened to him.. he knows he's worthy of me…and that this moment…this moment he will not just be embracing any woman. He will be embracing his equal that he will journey the rest of his life with. Because he fully acknowledges my strength and the reason he is given the opportunity presented before him, is due to the fact that he is capable, worthy and proven to be with such a woman. That is sexiness and all the lingerie I need.