I want my girlfriend back, but I am at a total loss of what to do. My girlfriend just doesn't seem to respond to me. Is there anything that I can do to turn the situation around completely? What should I really do?

Most probably, you are also troubled by the above questions when trying to win your girlfriend back. Well, you might not believe it, but most of the times, the logical things to do may not necessary be the best thing to do.

A lot of times, the best ways to win your girlfriend back is to use counter intuitive method. For example, instead of arguing with your girlfriend over the break up, you want to agree with the break up instead.

Do you know why? Maybe you still find it hard to believe. But the truth is, arguing with your girlfriend is not going to help you to bring your girlfriend back. Yes, maybe your girlfriend gives you some lame reasons for breaking up with you. It is simply unacceptable.

So you argue with your girlfriend about it, trying to prove her wrong. And indeed, you managed to win the argument. But so what? This is only going to make the situation tenser and make it even harder for you to win your girlfriend back.

So, what should you do instead? Well, what you should do instead is to agree with the break up. You want to be calm and cool about it. There is a psychological reason behind why this works.

Sometimes, you will need to use counter intuitive methods to win your ex girlfriend back.