After months or years of the divorce process, you have to move on and live your life.
The next step would be for you to redeem your self-esteem.
If there is one song that you can sing with to empower you, it would be Pink's "So what?" It's a song rooted from Pink's own journey through divorce, and her motivation to get herself back on track.
It's a dragging process to be in a divorce.
It's not only your work, finances, and relationships that are being placed in risk.
You are also in danger of losing yourself.
The non-stop arguments, fights, and stress can be too overwhelming.
The procedure of divorce is just too strenuous that you no longer have any time left to yourself.
You still have all the time to put the puzzle together.
Here are some simple ways that will get you started in your quest to redeem your self-esteem after the heart-breaking divorce.
So, get yourself a fancy journal.
Yes, you may splurge in this one.
List the characteristics and skills that you like about yourself.
By doing this, you may be able to recognize all the things you like about yourself.
You may write down skills that your boss have mentioned to be your star quality.
Don't be shy.
You are just being true to yourself.
If you can easily make people laugh, write that you have a superb sense of humor.
You may even write the positive traits that made your ex-partner attracted to you.
This is not boasting around, you are just distinguishing the tools that could help you in your liberation.
List the stuffs that you would like to change and how you can make it happen.
If the design of your house makes you feel trapped due to the memories, go and do a simple altering.
If you have the money to do a gargantuan change, then do.
On the other hand, you may just do a little modification.
You may re-paint the room, move the furniture, or rid of some stuff that you think reminds you of the pain.
You may also alter your lifestyle by being more active and eating healthy.
The changes that you do should improve you.
Appreciate the compliments and believe them.
Don't feel squeamish if you are told that you look fantastic today.
Also, do not think that the person is just playing with you.
Allow the good things in, it will reflect externally.
If you feel that you are beautiful, you will.
Say, you went out with friends and danced.
If a stranger complimented your moves, smile and say thank you.
Participate in a support group that caters for divorcees and single parent.
You may always go to your friends if you want a shoulder to cry on or drink beers with while you let go of your pain.
However, they might be tired of listening to you, or they can't fully comprehend what you are trying to go through.
Groups that undergo the same situation that you have may easily relate to you, and they understand your feelings better.
If you are having problems with your kids, you will be surprised by the ideas you'll get from the meetings.
They have been tried and tested.
So, free tips.
Also, there are experts in there that could facilitate change in your life.
Don't rush as you go through this process.
Say goodbye to divorce and take back what is yours, your self-esteem.
Take every day one step at a time.
A gradual change is much better.
Allow yourself to breathe and just enjoy life as it is.