Even though you and your husband hardly talk to each other very much, you still love him deeply and find comfort in knowing that he feels the same about you. There are times though, when he seems a little distant with you, and you find this disturbing. You need to reconnect with your husband somehow, but don't really know how to go about it.

It's not really very difficult to reconnect with your husband at all. Think back to how things were between you when you first got together. There is no way that you hardly spoke to each other back then, is there? In fact, if you weren't doing something together, there is a good chance that you called each other as much as possible during these times, just to be able to talk to each other, right?

Obviously the fact that you are not talking to each other very much now bothers your husband. There is a good chance that he feels as if your interest in him is fading, and he is worried that your marriage might be in trouble. Make an effort and reconnect with your husband as soon as possible - you have to let him know how you feel about him - right now.

Let your husband know that you have realized what the problem is - do it in a romantic way. Put a little note in his lunch box and apologize profusely for being so negligent. Tell him that, as from the time that he gets home from work, things are going to change - dramatically.

Have his favorite meal ready when he arrives home from work, and devote the entire evening to him. Tell him that you feel the need to have a heart to heart chat about your marriage. Say that you have noticed that he is not as happy now as he was in the past. This open, honest, discussion will help you to reconnect with your husband.

The trick is though, to reconnect with your husband and keep your marriage happy and secure. From now on, don't simply assume that everything is okay just because you had a serious talk about your problems - as soon as there is some discomfort between you and your husband, talk about it and smooth things over immediately.