Regaining Broken Trust - How Do You Stop A Divorce
This type of trust can be the most difficult type to regain. If you are the one to have strayed and cheated, think about how your spouse may feel, put yourself in their position. How would you feel if it was you?
If you have broken this trust, then simply saying you're sorry and you won't do it again is not enough. If you want to save your marriage you must absolutely stop doing anything that will get in the way of your spouse being able to trust you again.
If you can admit you were wrong for what you did instead of just trying to deny it, you will have a better chance of getting your spouse back. If your spouse is not quick to start trusting you again, you have no reason to get angry. They have every right to be angry and take the time necessary to accept your trust.
If you really think your relationship is worth saving you should consider marriage counseling to help heal the wounds caused by your infidelity. A counselor would know how to deal with your situation and may be able to bring the two of you together again. Seeking help could be the best advice you can get instead of going it alone.